Assessment
Relationship IQ™ Assessment
A 40-question, 5-domain instrument used at intake with every private client.
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Resources
Private guides, selected.
A small library of the frameworks and guides Stephanie shares with private clients and friends of the practice.
Workbook
Couples Communication Action Plan
The eight scripts and five weekly practices that hold the hardest conversations in place.
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Financial Conversations Guide
Ten structured money conversations every couple must be able to run.
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Why Talking About It Isn't Fixing It
Five signs your relationship is stuck in a loop — and what actually needs to change.
Workbook
The Communication Architecture Worksheet
The exact structure Stephanie installs with every private client.
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The Pre-Engagement Audit
32 questions every couple must answer before getting engaged.
Reading List
The Strategist's Library
The 14 books Stephanie recommends most often to private clients.
How to Use the Library
Read in this order.
Each resource stands alone. Together, they form the on-ramp to the practice.
01
Assess
Start with the Relationship IQ™. The rest of the library reads differently once you know your baseline.
02
Structure
The Communication Action Plan and Financial Conversations Guide install the two most consequential systems.
03
Decide
The Pre-Engagement Audit and Strategist's Library are for the decision in front of you.
What's Fair Use
How to use the resources.
- Print, annotate, and use privately with your partner. Encouraged.
- Share the download page URL with a friend. Encouraged.
- Republish the PDFs, screenshots, or excerpts on other sites. Not permitted.
- Use the frameworks in your own practice with attribution. Ask the office first.
The Dispatch
A private letter, every other Sunday.
Field notes, frameworks, and the occasional invitation. Read by founders, executives, and the partners who built their lives with them.
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Begin the Work
Your relationship deserves a strategist, not a script.
Take the confidential Relationship IQ Assessment to receive a personalized, private analysis and the next right step.